Have you ever seen the TV show called Bridezilla? If not, you should watch it at least once. The show revolves around different brides to be who were sweet and loving before getting engaged but somehow turn into monsters the closer it gets to the wedding day. Some of these women remind me of Jekyll and Hyde, one minute being a normal bride to be fussing with her hair or finalizing plans and the next minute turning into a swearing, ranting, and raving maniac, who resembles someone from an insane asylum. I often wonder why some of the men don’t call off the wedding after seeing the drastic change in the women from being nice and loving to being a raving lunatic.
During the show, these brides to be are followed around with cameras capturing everything, to the hair salon, to the dress fittings, to the bridal shower, to the church and reception hall, as well as catching every emotion that these women go through before the wedding day. It is almost laughable to see the way that these bridezilla’s treat their soon to be husband’s as well as their family and friends, and then she expects them to be at her wedding or in her wedding with smiles on their faces as if nothing has happened.
I have watched these bridezilla’s physically attack her own family and friends just because something doesn’t go the way she wants it to. These women get verbally abuse, sometimes physically abusive, and then some of them have ended up breaking into tears in a heap on the floor before they finally reach the wedding day. I have watched a couple of bridezilla’s get so bad that one of the grooms to be didn’t even show up for the wedding and left her standing at the altar alone, and the other one was so bad that the family members in her wedding party didn’t even stay around after the wedding reception was over, some left before the reception even ended.
Grooms to be, let this be a warning. Just because the woman you are getting ready to marry seems like a sweet and loving person doesn’t mean that she can’t change into a bridezilla the closer it gets to your wedding day. When women get nervous and scared, or start to feel stressed and overwhelmed, they can start to act very irrational and say and do things that they normally wouldn’t say or do. It might be a good idea to just stay out of her way until your honeymoon and hopefully, she will change back into the sweet and loving person that you fell in love with.